Hey guys!
first and formostly...a big big big big SORRY! to all my lovely readers!!! I'm so sorry, it seems as if i have abandonned my blog, but i dare not! i haven't...not now! not ever!
how've you guys been??? I've bn pretty much ok..chillaxn maxn and relaxn..enjoying the lovely summer holiday iv got before school starts once again!...wow its July already...I've been spending quality time with Mr A...which ofcourse is very much needed =] lol...
anyway!! to the creme de la creme [[ d koko]] of today!!! :
Seriously..whats up with guys who think they can walk all over you, come back begging and think they stand a good chance??...it pisses me the hell off!!! how can you dump someone who really careD* about you...a few months later, walk back into the person's life thinkning you're back at square one again! all lovey dovey!! BULLISH! i don't understand o!! some people's reasoning is beyond me!...chei...
So the other day, my girl called me....me nd this babe go way back..since pri school..which is pretty much amazing because after several years of being apart...(she's in the states and i'm in the uk)..we just seem to always find time to catch up and narrate the happenings going on in each of our lives...[[most people barely remember the names of their primary school classmates!]] anyway....
Last year she started dating this guy which she went to secondary school with..after years of losing contact they got intouch once again through one of these social networks (hi5), she was in the states and unfortunately he was in the uk, well as they say..distance is no barrier for true love right?....within a coupla months..these two lovebirds started dating!....OFCOURSE!...it was tough and challenging at first...so many fights....misunderstandings..arguments..international calls > too expensive...(other stuff i won't really go into right now) blah blah blah....somehow they both seemed to be content with the relationship!....(bear in mind they had't seen each other since sec sch..the closest to seeing each other physically was via webcam...) to cut the long story short..
They dated for about a year...on and off..and each time the guy would call the shots..(dump her) becuase of one reason or the other....I thought to myself, she really must have liked this guy to tolerate his bullshit, cuz i know for a fact I wouldnt be able to cope with his nonsense and ingredients!...anyway...finally...babygirl...came into her senses..and summoned the courage to call it quits....she decided it was too much like hardwork and the guy wasnt giving her the respect she deserved. He dated other girls while they were in a relationship and even though she was warned by several people, she refused to believe the truth....i guess she was in denial...!
She moved on with her life like she was suppose to and I suppose he never really did cuz now he wants her back!...can you imagine?? homeboy's talking about being a changed person and all...worst of all! she's dating someone in the states now and she is madly in love with that guy!......you may have guessed..she asked me what she should do!....
I'm not even going to lie to myself! i honestly don't know what she should do because i am not in that particualr situation.never have and hopefully never will...
But i want to take this opportunity to ask you my readers...if you were in this babes position, what would you do??...
she is happy with her current boyfriend...but still has some feelings for her ex, despite the fact that the guy still resides in the uk and she will only see him during the summer holidays!...
so my people..help me on judging this one! I want to hear/read ur views before i tell you what she should actually do!!
P.S- i'm sure there are lots of grammatical errors in this post...i take God beg una..forgive me..as i don't really have time to read over again!!!
have a blessed week guys!! =]
mwah mwah mwah
-xxx- L'armour -xxx-
Wednesday, 16 July 2008
Random Musingsssss!!! [[**crème brûlée**]]
Posted by -xXx- L'amour -xXx- at 12:36
Labels: dilemma, everyday stuff, i'm back, love, relationships
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13 honest opinions!:
FIRST?!
yup first!!!!!!!!!!!
welcome back babez!
missed u loadz!!
Mehn.. ur friend tried. But ive been there.. done that.. so i can understand. Altho i wasnt the most faithful babe sha.. actually we both werent faithful..lol.
She shud 4get d guy... u will ALWAYZ hv feelingz 4 ur ex. esp one u rily loved. u cant jst get rid of it. but she has a new guy. she shud hold on to him and not let sum bag of shyt(excuse my language) take hold of her again..
hope ure gud!
I'm good thnx!!! yes i missed u too..im going to read ur latest post right naw!! u speak truth babes!! xxx
Hey missy!!! welcome back from your hiatus....Tell ur girlfriend to stick with her current boo.. Makes no sense to dump her boo and go back to the guy..He might have changed but i guarantee you that they will still be having issues abt the distance and what not...I can understand why she would think she is confused cuz thats her ex and no matter what, she will always have a soft spot for him but there is no need to go back and put yourself thru unecessary BS....She needs to move on and enjoy her current boo....
u had beta be sorry...nonsense...where u comot go?
come babe how far with this bi letters na..we no blind o...
if u ask me...she should jsu move on abeg...forget the past...dnt be the dog bone ur vomit!
Darlin you updated..woohoo!!
Your friends ex...once a player, always a player!..Okay with a few exceptions sha, but still!
Its only naturally she still has feelings for her ex because its obvious she was really digging the guy for her to take all that nonsense from him before.
I personally think she should stick to her boyfriend o! As in you said she is madly in love with him, dont think she should take the risk with her ex cause she may end up really regretting it! Besides long distance relationship..to much palava! lol
Nice to hear you are enjoyin your summer! xx
@ bookie19: i agree with you...makes no sense to dump her boo nd get bck with her ex....
@Chari: lol..im bck for you baby!!lol..as fr the font..blogger wuldnt let me change it!! i tried and tried! :( lol... i hope you didnt miss me so much xx
@minky: once a player forever a player!! so true!!! thnx dear..i hope you're enjoying you're summer too!!
so i came accross another profile pic 'kiss'
and i was like, seriously, who would DO that, eh?
l'amour... i'm greatly suspicious of ur activities.
i will need to investigate ur blog further before u can get approval from me!!!!
is that why you know worte everything in size 20 font ahn ahn, if you see the way i screamed because i was soo close to the monitor...
i actually refuse to comment on that girl because she doesnt know what she want, neither does she know when she has something good and futher more something realistic....
minky you cannot just jump in head first, player, player, player...if you, i am talking to you kiss aguy when you are going out with another one, are you then a player for life, ahn ahn!! and you too l'amour ur joining her
first of all, she try a whole year of online dating?? hardwork! ok that done.
hmm.. she shud actually go for the yankee guy cos one and the most important to me, he's THERE! and the secschool/uk guy ISNT!. answer enough?
with all the other issues of him being totally messed up(cheating and not being nice to her,) she doesnt need anymore reasons to move on, they shud just be civil about it.
and gurl, that font hurt my eyes.. try the normal one next time.. ok hun? thanx..muahh
i take style dig this your large fonts! less strain on my eyes.
But what should babe do? hmm...that's a toughie. For where? tough gini?!!! your friend needs to quit putting the ex on a pedestal and forget the dude o jare. ahn ahn, how much nonsense must a girl tolerate before she gets it into her head that people don't change. seriously, they just don't.
Unless boy don enrol for seminary (& from the looks of things as per still wanting your friend back...he doesn't want to become a priest); he cannot change. Call me a pessimist, I will say I'm a realist. If your friend is in love with her current man why go back to your vomit.
Just my honest opinion.
Hmm....Well to tell ya tha truth I've totally been in this situation before...I'll tell her to do what I didn't do the first time, forget the ex! Stick with tha bf! A guy who doesn't treat you right is not someone you wanna be with. I just wish I had listened to my own words a while ago...
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